The protest that is ripping our country apart. #TakeTheKnee

This is your “fair warning”: Not everything in my life is happiness and rainbows. I’m a huge believer in the protest started by Colin Kaepernick and continued on in greater numbers each week by other players, teams, and even some coaching staff. I firmly hold that change begins when when …

Top space and self care at eighty-five mph

Top space is an emotional and psychological state. It occurs when some dominants hit their version of “runner’s high”. Last weekend, I attended an event in Tampa called Florida Power Exchange. This was a first for me; I’ve not been to a convention or gathering in Florida since we moved …

Let’s talk about sexual fantasies

Sexual fantasies are one of the perks of adolescence. You hit puberty with a bang and suddenly your body starts doing weird shit. Hair in places you never had it before, emotions like a steamroller going over everything and you’re miserable. For about a week. Then, you go to bed …

Michael Lucas and the Resurgence of Bareback Studios

Bareback, also known as raw fucking, is one of the most intimate acts two people can engage in. There’s no proof of where the term originated from but it first made its appearance in popular culture during the 60s and 70s when troops in Vietnam would “ride bareback” as a …

Sobah’s Bettah (and other life lessons in addiction recovery)

Addiction is a funny thing. You don’t wake up and decide “Hey, I think I’m going to start working on that addiction I’ve been meaning to pick up.” You don’t mean to hurt everyone around you as you sink deeper and deeper down into the addiction; especially your family and …

Writing Through Depression

Depression isn’t the end of the world; it just feels like it might be.Depression creeps into your head, stands in front of your goals with a butcher knife and starts cutting away your confidence. Accomplishments and achievements are wiped away. You know what’s happening … you know it’s the depression (and …